Sex from an Energetic Perspective

Sex is not only a physical union, but also an energetic one. When we have sex, our auras merge. We exchange energies and thus information with each other. I noticed this because after one-night stands I always felt dirty or empty and sometimes even both at the same time. We give off a part of our energy and take in foreign energy. This disturbs the harmony of our energy body. The effect is particularly strong when both come to orgasm at the same time. Sometimes a long warm shower helps against the feeling of being dirty. But not always. I have never found a remedy for the emptiness that would work reliably. Now, of course, this doesn't apply to every one-night stand, but if you don't choose your sexual partners carefully, you'll run into it. I had friends who were sexually very active. Extremely active, I would even say. Their emotional state was more than just questionable. No wonder when you constantly pick up foreign energies from people you don't really know and normally don't want anything to do with. I don't want to tell anyone how to organise their sex life, but I would recommend paying attention to how you feel after such an act and adjusting your behaviour accordingly. Sex is a wonderful thing. One should also feel good afterwards, not only during the act.

We are told by the media and in films that sexual permissiveness is great. You are something special when you have as many different sexual partners as possible at the same time. It's almost portrayed like a strong status symbol. At the same time, the emotional aspect is completely ignored. If your spiritual life is important to you, don't let the media influence you. Emotions are energies that vibrate at certain frequencies. People can surround themselves with incense, crystals and stones for as long as they like, if they constantly destroy the harmony of their own aura, that won't help at all. It is better to have fewer, but the right partners. If the energetic-emotional harmony is given with another person, all this is not a problem. Then you gladly give away some of your own energy and keep a piece of the person with whom you have just spent a few pleasant hours. :)

If we now consider what this merging means for our relationships, it quickly becomes clear why many cultures place high value on having only one sexual partner. We merge our auras and become one with each other. In the process, we exchange emotions and information in the form of energies, even when we are not having sex. In harmonious relationships, it can be observed how the couples actually merge into one. They have a kind of invisible communication with each other. Information flows back and forth continuously. Now imagine what happens when one or both of them have other sexual partners. Energies are constantly being brought in that do not belong in that relationship. Over time, this causes a lot of chaos. You can't hide cheating in a relationship like that. Impossible. The partner will definitely notice. Even if the whole thing takes place with mutual consent, you can't escape the energetic effect. If I charge myself with the energetic imprint of another person in a one-night stand, I pass it on afterwards at home. So this generates chaos not only for me, but also for my partner. If there are children around, they are of course also affected because there is such a strong connection with them. The stronger the emotional bond between people, the easier these energies flow. We all know this from our own experience. It is not only in relationships and families. It also happens with friends.

There are people who exploit this mechanism to steal energy from others. I am thinking of rape and abuse, for example. Especially small children seem to be very popular for this. Whether it is done deliberately for this purpose or not, I don't know. Fortunately, I have only had to deal with the victims so far. Personally, I think many abusers are probably not even aware of the connection. They do it just because it feels good for them. But that's just speculation. You don't even have to go so far and look at this extreme corner to find examples of actual energy vampires. I have come across several cases where the lack of energy has manifested itself in a full-blown sex addiction. They often had two or three random sexual encounters a day. And this is only because these people knew no other way to raise their own energy. When you show them other ways, it stops. It's very interesting to observe. Self-love, meditation and good social relationships help immensely here. This behaviour can also occur within a committed relationship. Then one partner is simply sucked out by the other. This is by no means less destructive, but at least they don't bring in any foreign energies. These people knew that their behaviour was problematic, but they couldn't stop it without help. Once the dependency was resolved, the energy could flow freely again in both directions and their relationships improved quickly.

Now, of course, we can also utilise this energy exchange with purpose. Spiritual growth can be nurtured with enriching sexual practices, such as Tantra. The interplay between the female principle "Shakti" and the male principle "Shiva" is described in traditional Indian teachings. Both principles are inherent in all of us. When these poles are brought together in harmony, we create the whole. This can be seen as yin and yang, sun and moon, day and night, matter and spirit, etc. Only through unification do we become one. I'm not saying that it necessarily has to happen in a combination of a man and a woman. A human being always embodies both principles. One is expressed slightly more dominant than the other. These characteristics are also clearly recognisable in homosexual couples. The union is therefore not dependent on sexual orientation. The energetic aspect is what counts. If the sexual act is performed in harmony, it can release an incredible amount of energy and help to harmonise the chakras. The aim of the Tantra teachings is to awaken the Kundalini. To achieve this, all chakras must be open and balanced. Only then can the energy flow freely. Therefore, from this perspective, there is nothing wrong with parallel sexual relationships with multiple partners, provided that care is taken to choose the right partners.

I hope I have been able to give a little insight into the interaction of our energy bodies. If you are wondering why the media is so fixated on the propagation of sexual freedom, read "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley. That seems to be where the journey is going with this. It's interesting how prophetic books like this one can push humanity to manifest the story into reality a hundred years later. The more people read it, the stronger the imprint in the collective human consciousness. Unfortunately, Huxley failed to include the energetic aspects in his story. Perhaps we can counteract this a little by spreading this knowledge and anchoring it in the consciousness of humanity.